“All our strategies of trying to control life through blaming or withdrawing are aimed at keeping us from the raw experience of just such a moment. In the pause, rather than getting lost in our reactive thoughts and actions, we become directly aware of what is happening in our body. At these times we begin to see how interconnected our mind and body are. With anger, the body tightens, the chest fills with an explosive feeling of pressure. With fear we might feel the grip of knots in our stomach, the constriction in our chest or throat. If shame arises, our face burns our shoulders slump, we feel a physical impulse to shrink back to hide. Sensations in the body are ground zero, the place where we directly experience the entire play of life.”
― Tara Brach, Ph.D